Being Heard

This post is going to be about how important being heard has been to me across the years since my diagnosis in 1978 as late effects have surfaced, and in many instances, persist. but first For some reason, I decided to look for an image to pair with the post before I wrote a single … Continue reading Being Heard

Why I blog

It's been a while since I reflected on WHY I blog; I've had some time on my hands of late recovering from a 'bout of 'should-have-gone-to-the-hospital' pneumonia, so I thought I'd share my reasons for blogging. I blog for a few reasons: to infuse hope, light into places of despair, darkness to educate, equip, and … Continue reading Why I blog

Cancer: 10 Things You Can Do to Help

Being diagnosed with cancer shakes even the strongest individuals to the core as uncertainty is immediately injected in one's world and life will never be the same. Your life becomes divided between B.C. and A.C. (Before Cancer and After Cancer). There are, however, things you, family, friends, and friends of friends can do to make … Continue reading Cancer: 10 Things You Can Do to Help

Total Body Skin Check

Well, my medical year in review includes something that I believe gets looked at every day, but it all to often overlooked in the care of the adult survivor of childhood cancer who received radiation. I will link to the Children's Oncology Group/s risk factors and guidelines at the end of the post. This year … Continue reading Total Body Skin Check

Working Smart: Grocery Delivery and/or Pick Up

Living with a chronic illness requires one to work smart, to listen to one's body, and to be flexible on a daily basis. Today, I am sharing my grocery shopping tips, tricks, and props. I really must confess that my dislike, borderline hate, of the grocery store predates my heart transplant and while I'm no fan … Continue reading Working Smart: Grocery Delivery and/or Pick Up

Self Care: Rationing my Energy

When a resource is limited, the resource is rationed; it's that simple. So, when the resource is energy, it is rationed just like other scarce resources. I ration my energy on a daily basis as a matter of self care, and some days I do a better job than others. Now, if you know me, … Continue reading Self Care: Rationing my Energy

Repondez S’il Vous Plait

Repondez S'il Vous Plait, French for 'please reply', is one of the most frequently violated rules of etiquette of our time. According to *Emily Post, the appropriate response to a formal invitation is to respond according to the manner indicated on the invitation itself. If no method is indicated, then a handwritten note or a … Continue reading Repondez S’il Vous Plait

Thanksgiving: Canceled

These last 3 weeks have brought me face to face [yet again] with a reality that I prefer to deny; my stamina, physical, emotional, and mental, takes a hit every time something goes awry within my body’s terrain. Three weeks ago, my husband was out of town for 10 days on business. I spent every … Continue reading Thanksgiving: Canceled