Happy Dance

We used to have a 'happy dance' tradition in our family. When we received good news or reached a milestone, we would do a goofy, happy dance together as a family. My husband and I started this in the early years of our marriage and our son delighted in them throughout his preschool, elementary years. … Continue reading Happy Dance

Life Goal: Celebrate Everything and Pay It Forward

Eleven years ago this month, my heart was failing, I was dying, and my last life goal was to live to see our son turn 5 thinking that he might have a memory or 2 of me that were his and not merely stories someone had told him about me. I'll never forget his 5th … Continue reading Life Goal: Celebrate Everything and Pay It Forward

the ‘Other Guy’ Rule

From the father of an adult survivor of childhood cancer written through his father-eyes, his heart-tender, and in his own words on the lived experience of being told your daughter has cancer, then 30 years later that she needed a new heart. “We tell ourselves it’s always the 'other guy’. It only happens to other … Continue reading the ‘Other Guy’ Rule

Monslay

It's a 'Monslay Monday'! I woke up at 3 am; 3 am, people. I didn't wake up to go to the bathroom; no, I woke up for the day at 3 am for no good reason. That is the first sign that it's going to take a 'Monslay' kind of attitude to make it through … Continue reading Monslay